I have lived this answer too. I was the other woman and don't regret a moment of it. The wife was not a warm woman but after her husband was with me she suddenly found how nice and warm she could be. Many people won't understand this, but I think I performed a service for his (and her) family. They are back together and suddenly she acts as though she loves him. All that had to happen was that she lost her husband...Then she woke up...and found him...Thank me!